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Bat Mitzvah DJs in New York City

Bat mitzvah DJs and MCs who build the night around the bat mitzvah girl and her friends, and keep every generation on the dance floor across NYC and Westchester.

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Bat Mitzvah DJs Who Make the Night Feel Like Hers

A bat mitzvah is your daughter’s night, and the music has to feel like her. For over 30 years, Expressway Music has DJ’d bat mitzvahs across New York City and Westchester, building each playlist around the bat mitzvah girl and the friends she most wants on the dance floor. Founder Dave Swirsky started the company in 1992, so we have run enough of these to keep tweens, teens, and grown-ups all dancing in the same room.

Our DJs and MCs handle the candle lighting, lead the hora, run the games, and read the room all night, lifting the energy for the kids without losing the adults. It is part of our wider mitzvah entertainment, tailored here specifically for a bat mitzvah.

What we can bring

  • A playlist built around the bat mitzvah girl and her friends
  • MC and motivational dancers who keep the girls and boys involved
  • Hora leadership, candle lighting, and the full run of show
  • Photo booths, karaoke, games, and giveaways
  • Sound and dance-floor lighting that turns the room into a party
  • One team, not five separate vendors

From Manhattan event spaces to Westchester country clubs and synagogue social halls, we tailor the music and energy to your daughter and your family.

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Bat Mitzvah Group shot of friends having fun with each other.
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Why Choose Us

For over 30 years we have given New York and Westchester bat mitzvah girls a night built around them, keeping their friends on the floor, leading the hora, and reading the room so every guest feels part of it.

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Run by Dave Swirsky since 1992

Founder Dave Swirsky has DJ’d New York bat mitzvahs for over 30 years and knows how to make the night belong to the guest of honor.

Built around the bat mitzvah girl

We shape the playlist and the energy around her and her friends, not a one-size-fits-all party template.

One team, not five vendors

DJ, MC, dancers, photo booths, and lighting from a single coordinated team, so your family has less to juggle.

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How a Bat Mitzvah Night Runs

Most bat mitzvahs move through three parts, and the music has a different job in each.

Cocktail hour

Her friends start the party

While the adults have cocktails, the kids get karaoke, games and the dance floor in the main room, so the energy is already up when everyone comes in.

The big moments

Her entrance, the hora and candle lighting

We introduce her the way she wants, lead the hora with her and her family up on the chair, and play a song for each group she calls up to light a candle.

The dance floor

Her friends and her grandparents, together

We read both crowds and get every generation dancing, with games, trivia about her, and karaoke in between the dance sets.

Photo booths, dancers, LED dance stages and a montage on the big screen can all come from the same team.

What Our Bat Mitzvah Clients Say

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Melanie Kletter

David was wonderful to work with and we are so happy with how everything went at our daughter’s recent Bat Mitzvah. David listened carefully to exactly what we wanted – we wanted a fun environment, a lively hora, and music that was not too loud – and he provided exactly what we asked for. He was very responsive and always got back to me in a timely manner. I highly recommend David and Expressway Music!

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Elana K.

New York, NY

Dave and his team were amazing at my daughter’s recent bat mitzvah. We had some very specific requests for what we wanted and he handled them all beautifully. We met numerous times throughout the planning process to make sure we were all on the page. The party was everything we hoped for and the dj was a big part of that. The Emcee and dancers were fun and great with the kids. It was a fantastic party and I’m so grateful to Dave and his team! Would highly recommend for a bar/bat mitzvah!

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Robin B.

San Francisco, CA

We used Expressway Music for my daughter’s bat mitzvah in September 2018 and Dave and his team were the best! I tend to be an anxious person and planning this event wasn’t easy for me. But every conversation in advance of the event left me at ease with my decision to hire Expressway and the day itself was amazing. Most important: my daughter and her friends had a blast. Dave is honest, kind, patient and fun. What more could you want for an event DJ?

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Shari R.

Mount Kisco, NY

Dave DJ’d our daughter’s Bat Mitzvah ten years ago, and we told him then that we’d be back in a decade for our son’s Bar Mitzvah! And we were. And last week he – and terrific DJ Corey – did it again. Just as in 2008, Expressway Music took the time to learn about our family and especially our child, and gave us exactly the party that we were so hoping for: upbeat from the first minute (notwithstanding the gray, rainy day outside); precisely tailored to our son, his friends and our adult guests (all of whom prefer things to be festive while, as the motto says, not too loud or over-the-top); full of games, dancing, laughter and great fun. Once again, Expressway Music helped to make this very meaningful milestone in our lives, that much more joyful. Special thanks to Charissa, who is endlessly patient, instantly responsive, and like Dave and Corey, gave us a wonderful day with memories to last a lifetime…. including Grandma leading the conga line!

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Rachel D.

Queens, Queens, NY

Yelp does not provide enough stars to give proper credit to Dave Swirksy and Expressway Music. Five stars doesn’t do it. When I started planning my daughter Julia’s bat mitzvah party over a year ago, I swore that we would not have a DJ. I have had so many miserable experiences as a guest at mitzvah parties (and weddings) where the music was deafeningly loud, so loud that the walls and floor seemed to vibrate and you couldn’t have a conversation with the person standing right next to you unless you literally screamed in their ear. have been to more than one party where I sat there with earplugs, unable to socialize or enjoy myself or even hear myself think. So when Julia expressed a wish to have dancing and games, initially I said no. I said no the second, third, and fourth times she asked as well. Finally, I began to worry that she wouldn’t have fun at her own party and agreed to look into finding a DJ that both kids and adults alike might enjoy. I was skeptical, to say the least. Fast forward to November 18, 2019, when Julia and our guests — kids and adults alike — had the time of their lives thanks to Dave, who was our DJ, and the incomparable Daniel as emcee. Dave has an uncanny ability to read the room, play music that will be fun for all the guests, and meet the host’s goals and take the host’s wishes into account. I honestly wasn’t sure how this was possible, but he did it. It takes enormous talent and sensitivity – not to mention good taste – to accomplish this, and the experience was so amazing that it far surpassed anything I’d expected. The music was at an appropriate volume so that people could dance and enjoy themselves, but also so that people who weren’t necessarily dancing could enjoy themselves as well, whether at the bar, in small groups of people having conversations, etc. Daniel the emcee just charmed the kids with his sense of fun, creative games, whimsical dances, and more. He was so much fun, even adults joined in. (Yes, I tried to limbo!) When both your 13-year-old daughter and your 81-year-old father are raving about the entertainment at your party, you know you found the right talent. From the time I started my initial search for a DJ to the date of the party, Planning a party like a mitzvah or a wedding is a substantial investment financially and an even greater investment emotionally because it celebrates a milestone of enormous personal and cultural significance. My daughter was so proud of what she had accomplished in preparing for her bat mitzvah and could not have found a better way to celebrate than with music and dancing guided by Dave and Daniel. I honestly don’t think I ever saw my child so happy. As a parent, one’s happiness is often determined by the happiness of one’s kids. That was certainly true here, but not entirely, because I thoroughly enjoyed myself in the moment as well and will remember it all for a very long time. I am really grateful to Dave and his colleagues and cannot recommend him highly enough.

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Pamela K.

Bronx, NY

DJ Dieter was the DJ for our daughter’s Bat Mitzvah on Oct 20th. The party was great and Dieter did an amazing job. We were so impressed. We met a few times before the party to make plans and I had to laugh, because I couldn’t believe how easy he made it and took so much stress away from the planning. My daughter sent him songs she wanted and he worked with her on themes of quiz questions (e.g., Avengers, etc) for kids. We told Dan the songs we wanted for each of the candles for the candlelighting and, I don’t know how these things work, but it all magically happened exactly the way we wanted. The kids and adults had a great time and I think the music and the loudness were perfect for kids to have fun and grownups to talk. The dancer was great. Everybody had a blast with the photographs and Charissa, in the office at DJ Expressway, was amazing in helping us with the montage. We were delighted as were our guests.

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Cindy and Matt

Dear David and Daniel, This email is at least 24 hours overdue, but we were almost as wiped out yesterday as we were when we got home from the party Saturday evening, and this is the first time since Saturday that I feel as though my brain is functioning sufficiently well to send you this email. We are all so incredibly grateful for the job you two, and the motivators did in making the party SO MUCH FUN. We have been inundated with calls and emails since Saturday night telling us how super everything was, and you were signaled out all the time for special mention. Everything you did was right, from the tone Daniel set with the kids and the way you interacted with them, to Jesse’s music and the way he invited guests (including, it seemed, the entire boy contingent) to play with him, to David’s terrific mix of music, with current stuff blended in totally with older favorites. The hora was the right length and in the right spot, the trivia was well done. Mostly, though, thank you for how lovely you were with our daughters. Samantha and Charlotte, who, as I think you figured out, are very different, both enjoyed their time with you and felt incredibly comfortable with you. That’s a pretty significant fact for us. They both had such a good time, as did all of their friends and all of us, and we know that this is in large part due to your work and skill and the simply terrific job you did. We will miss being in touch with you, but Charlotte’s bat mitzvah will be here before we know it!! Thanks again, we really are so grateful.

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Karen, Elliot and Alexis Lerner

Dear David and the Whole Team at Expressway Music. Our family was so lucky to have you coordinate all of the entertainment for Lexi’s Bat Mitzvah weekend. You pulled off two very different parties, with a hugely successful Bat Mitzvah luncheon on Saturday in a hotel ballroom and then an all-out fun restaurant dinner celebration on Sunday night. Every moment working with all of you has been pitch-perfect from our very first meeting. Benjamin the magician totally “wowed” the cocktail crowd, so they knew it was going to be an extraordinary night right from moment one. What a doll! Your dancers were extraordinarily professional- they got to know the Bat Mitzvah girl’s friends as well as the adult guests without ever being intrusive. I could write a whole note just complimenting them. Sergio played such great music that I danced with the kids awhile and they were all exclaiming that it was “the best Bat Mitzvah they had ever gone to”. I wish I could go clubbing with him every weekend! Out front with you the karaoke was a blast and my friends and family could not stop laughing, dancing, hugging, talking, taking photos. I know I was really specific about the music and you exceeded every expectation in every single regard. I am so glad that we have a video memory of the event AND photos, seeing it on the plasma screen TVs while it was all happening made it seem like we were at a really fun rock concert! Plus we got to go home with photos from your super-fun photo booth! so even while we wait for our stills, we already have the most hysterical photos- Lexi took so many with her friends and today they are already hanging up in her locker at school! And finally Daniel, was a treasure! He is the best friend that everyone must have at an event, exactly and totally there when you need him and just unobtrusive when you don’t. He has a personality that people just want to be around him and hang out with him, while at the same time he is smoothly moving everything along. The kids were raving about the trivia, all with questions about the Bat Mitzvah girl! He was an absolute delight to work with. I think the trick is that Expressway offers professional, truly nice people and together you are all totally focused on making every second of the party into a really magical time. We are getting non-stop calls and e-mails, everyone agrees it was just the most fabulous two days! Thank you for ensuring that the most important weekend for our family had the absolute greatest memories that we could ever ask for.

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Nina

Dear Dave, I know that I already thanked you somewhat informally, but I wanted to sit down and write you a more “formal” thought-out thank you note. I just wanted to again thank you and your team for making Hannah’s bat mitzvah such a success. I did not have a big budget for the event, but I knew the dj would be the key, and I had to find the right one. I envisioned a unified party, from the grandparents to the kids. I was looking for someone who kept the party going but also did not blast the music so loud that people who had not seen each other in years would not be able to converse in the same room. I wanted djs who were not stereotypically cheesy, but who would keep the kids entertained. Again, I didn’t expect to have a lot of other entertainment or activities for the kids, so the dj had to hold their attention but not alienate the adults—or better yet, the adults would be motivated to join in. I did not know anyone who had used you, but reading online reviews and viewing your website made me think you’d be the right guys. Now, after the party, I know I made the right decision. I have received so many compliments from people of all ages. People implied that I must have given you a lot of instructions, but I said “not really.” Picking the right professionals is the key. Your entire staff was a pleasure to work with. From Charissa in the office to the dancers, Stevie and Julie, everyone was friendly and professional. You picked songs that ran the gamut, which is what we wanted, and kept things moving in a professional top notch fashion. Also, Daniel’s interaction with the kids hit the right note—he kept things fun, classy, and age-appropriate. I really don’t know how he learned so many kids names! I was very impressed with everything. Most importantly, Hannah had a great time. So, thank you! And please pass our thanks on to others on your staff as well.

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Recent Bat Mitzvah Highlights

Thriller Bat Mitzvah

Expressway Music dynamic MC Daniel leads Michael Jackson’s “Thriller” at Stella’s Bat Mitzvah 2026

Kids having a blast at Brooklyn Bat Mitzvah with DJ Sabrina

DJ Sabrina had the kids on their feet at this Bat Mitzvah at Jalsa on Coney Island Avenue in Brooklyn. Sabrina plays and hosts, so she can read a young crowd, call the next song, and keep the energy up without long gaps. Kids-focused sets like this are a big part of every Bat Mitzvah we play. Learn more about our Bat Mitzvah DJs.

Bat Mitzvah Chair lift during Hora at Jalsa Brooklyn

The chair lift is the high point of the Hora, and here DJ and MC Sabrina leads it at a Bat Mitzvah at Jalsa in Brooklyn. A good MC calls the family onto the floor, keeps the circle moving, and times the lift so everyone gets the photo. Sabrina plays weddings and corporate events too. Read about our Bat Mitzvah DJ and MC service.

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Red hat on the River event celebration

Kids sang and danced to Fireball by Pitbull during karaoke at this Bat Mitzvah at Red Hat on the River in Irvington, NY, with DJ Dave Swirsky cheering them on. Karaoke gives kids a turn at the mic between dance sets, and the whole group usually joins in. Our team also ran the MC role and a photo booth here. Read more about our Bat and Bar Mitzvah entertainment.

Golden Demon Hunters Karaoke by Youngest Bat Mitzvah guest

The youngest guest at this Bat Mitzvah at Red Hat on the River in Irvington stepped up to sing Golden during karaoke, and the room loved it. Karaoke works well at a Bat Mitzvah because every age can join, from little cousins to grandparents. Our DJ keeps the song list moving and the mic friendly for first-timers. Learn about our karaoke DJ parties.

Mom and daughter karaoke duet at Bat Mitzvah to Mamma Mia

A mother and daughter duet on the ABBA classic Mamma Mia was one of the sweetest moments of this winter Bat Mitzvah at Red Hat on the River in Irvington. The night mixed dancing, games and karaoke, with DJ Dave Swirsky and MC Daniel keeping it moving. Family duets like this happen when karaoke is part of the plan. See our Bat Mitzvah DJ options.

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Red Hot on the River hosts amazing Bat Mitzvah with Expressway Music and Events

It was zero degrees outside, but inside Red Hat on the River in Irvington the dance floor was packed. Here MC Daniel leads the kids through Cotton Eye Joe at a Bat Mitzvah where DJ Dave Swirsky played and our open air photo booth ran all night. Line dances give everyone something to do together. Find out how we plan Bar and Bat Mitzvah parties.

Kids Karaoke cocktail hour at Bat Mitzvah

While the adults enjoyed cocktail hour at the Mansion on Broadway in White Plains, the kids took over the main room for karaoke with DJ Dave and MC Daniel. Party in the U.S.A. by Miley Cyrus got everyone singing. A kids karaoke cocktail hour keeps younger guests happy and ready for the party. Read about our kids and Mitzvah karaoke.

Bat Mitzvah Dad reviews Party

Right after this Bat Mitzvah at Split Rock in Pelham Bay, the dad stopped to tell us what he thought of DJ Dave and MC Daniel. Parents see the whole night, from the first dance to the last song, so their feedback is the review that matters most to us. Hear more about how we run Bar and Bat Mitzvah celebrations.

Coke and Pepsi Game in Brooklyn NY

DJ and MC Dieter runs the classic Coke and Pepsi game at a Bar Mitzvah at Urbane in Brooklyn, with our dancers jumping in to keep the pace up. Partners race to act out each call until one pair is left standing. Our MCs time games like this between dance sets so the floor never goes quiet. More on our Bar and Bat Mitzvah DJ service.

Birthday Girl and friends discuss her party with dj dave

The birthday girl and her friends tell DJ Dave Swirsky and MC Daniel what they thought of her party on the Upper West Side in May 2025. The night had a photo booth, karaoke, dancing and games. Hearing it straight from the kids is the best review we can get. Find out more about our Bat Mitzvah and kids party DJs.

Very Happy Mom and Dad discuss party with DJ Dave

The parents share their thoughts with DJ Dave after their daughter’s party on the Upper West Side in May 2025. DJ Dave and MC Daniel ran the night, with a photo booth and karaoke as well. Parents plan for months, so knowing the party went as hoped means a lot to us. Learn how we plan Bat Mitzvah parties.

Bat Mitzvah Mom tells DJ Dave what she thought about the party

Right after her daughter’s Bat Mitzvah on the Moxy Hotel rooftop in Williamsburg, Brooklyn, a mom tells DJ Dave what she thought. Our team for the night was DJ Dave, MC Daniel and a dancer. Feedback from parents in the moment is honest and it is the review we value most. See what goes into our Bar and Bat Mitzvah packages.

MC leads line dance to Nokia by Drake

MC Daniel leads a line dance to Nokia by Drake at a Bat Mitzvah at Split Rock in Pelham Bay in April 2025. New line dances catch on fast with kids, and an MC who learns them keeps the party current. Daniel teaches the steps from the floor so everyone can follow. See our Bar and Bat Mitzvah dancers and MCs.

emcee Daniel at Mitzvah

MC Daniel leads Cotton eye joe and Macarana

MC Daniel leads the kids through Cotton Eye Joe and straight into the Macarena at a Bat Mitzvah at Split Rock in Pelham Bay. Linking two classics keeps the floor full and gives every age something they know. Daniel is one of our most requested emcees. Read about how we run the dance floor at Bar and Bat Mitzvahs.

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Happy Bat Mitzvah Mom

A Bat Mitzvah mom, with her daughter beside her, tells DJ Dave how great the party was, moments after it ended at Split Rock in Pelham Bay, Bronx, in April 2025. DJ Dave and MC Daniel ran the night. We ask for feedback on the spot because that is when it is most honest. See how we approach every Bat Mitzvah DJ booking.

Coke and Pepsi game Bat Mitzvah

MC Dieter hosts a game of Coke and Pepsi at a Bat Mitzvah at The Ribbon on West 72nd Street in March 2025. The game gets every kid on the floor, and an MC with a big voice keeps it fair and fast. We plan games like this into the timeline between dance sets. See our Bat Mitzvah MC and DJ service.

Coke and Pepsi Game

MC Daniel teaches the kids the Coke and Pepsi game, 2026 style, at a Bat Mitzvah in Westport, CT in June 2026. A clear explanation of the rules gets everyone playing fast. Games like this are a highlight between dance sets. Daniel keeps it fast and fun, so the game never drags. Learn more about our Bat Mitzvah MC and DJ service.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Yes. We DJ and MC bat mitzvahs throughout New York City and Westchester, from Manhattan event spaces to country clubs and synagogue social halls.

They do. We lead the hora, run the candle lighting and motzi, make the announcements, and keep the night flowing so your family can simply enjoy it.

Yes. We read the room and mix music for every age in attendance, so the bat mitzvah girl and her friends stay on the floor and the adults never feel left out.

Always. We build the playlist around your daughter and the songs she and her friends love, then take requests on the night while keeping the energy right.

Yes. We can add motivational dancers, games, and giveaways that pull the kids onto the floor and keep the celebration buzzing all night.

A professional DJ and MC, sound and dance-floor lighting, and a planning call to map out the run of show. Photo booths, karaoke, and dancers are available as add-ons.

Popular dates book up quickly, so the earlier the better. Reach out and we will confirm availability for your date.

Use the Check Availability button on this page or call us, and we will build a quote around your date, venue, and plans.

Our Services

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Corporate Events

Expressway Music delivers premium DJ services and entertainment for NYC corporate events, with award-winning DJs, live music options, photo booths & Karaoke.

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Weddings

Experience your dream wedding with our DJ services.

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Mitzvahs

Celebrate your special milestone with our Dj services.

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Karaoke DJ Parties

For over 30 years, we’ve provided complete karaoke entertainment, featuring quality equipment and diverse song selections for any occasion.

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Live Music

Expressway Music provides premium live bands and performers, carefully selected by owner DJ Dave Swirsky to deliver unforgettable entertainment.

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Photo Booths

Our premium photo booth rentals include props, unlimited prints, and professional attendants to make your event memorable.

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Photography & Videography

Our professional photo and video services capture your special moments beautifully, creating lasting memories you’ll treasure forever.

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Lighting

Enhance your event with our custom lighting solutions – from elegant décor to vibrant dance floor effects.

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